Saturday, May 16, 2009

Hello Heartbreak - It's Good to See You

How many times have you endured a broken heart and then realized some years later that underneath that loss was a blessing waiting to be born? How many times have you cried yourself to sleep because a lover chose to say goodbye? How often has the sky lost its brilliance because your heart was heavy with sadness?

Heartbreak is a loss. It's a tragedy not unlike so many others. Hearts are broken everyday of every hour of the year. People who once claimed one another through commitment have suddenly become estranged. What had been paradise is now unrecognizable.

Unlike some other losses in life, tragedies of the heart are losses that can be good although at the time they look and feel very bad. For example, you may have thought that Joe, the Plummer, was the man for you but after running into him a year later, you were at a loss as to what it was you saw in him or felt for him. And what about the person you ended up with verses the ones you dated before you found your life mate? Don't you just look back and think, Oh my God, was I that desperate or just a little slow to get it?

Well, now you're here... back again, on your knees pulling at the carpet on your living room floor and, begging the air that both you and I breathe that favorite one word plea and demand of, "WHY!" If anybody really ever knew why, we'd probably all be celebrating most of the time. When it comes to loving another romantically, there is a lot of room for feelings to fluctuate, especially when two people are apart. We cry and moan because we refuse to let go of what we had. We refuse the change. And as a result, we refuse the bigger blessings that are in store down the road.

Yeah, sometimes love sucks. It's sad. It hurts like mad. But then sometimes it's necessary. And when the heaviness begins to recede, you start to notice the sky again and the birds, who have been singing to you all along. Slowly, and overtime you let the pain go and accept the loss. You then enter a new beginning ... one full of hope, love, and life.

Breakups, heartbreaks, and heartaches have gotten a bad rap over the years as something to be avoided at all costs, even if it costs you your sanity, peace, or life. Every heart broken is a breakthrough to something greater if you allow it.

Next time your heart is broken welcome its arrival although you may be opposed to it at first. Your love is your friend and your experiences are your lessons. The Magic of Love uncovers Miracles where you least expect them. So, do yourself a favor this time and say, Hello Heartbreak ... It's Good to See You.

Felecia Townsend is a relationship enthusiast and personal coach. She has spent years learning the art of successful relationships and through her philanthropic writing is giving back to the community that has given her so much.

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